This is what it’s like to be in Big Brother’s House. No auditions required and no eviction, but only forced admission and voluntary exits.
We’ve been too busy with work, travels, going to malls, eating outside, partying and a lot of activities in the outside world. Then all of a sudden, an “unwanted visitor” arrived and we are in enhanced community quarantine aka “lockdown”.
We can complain or we can feel thankful we are not front-liners who are “forcedly evicted” to the outside world but willingly fight for our welfare. What better help we can do than to stay home and make the most of what we’ve been longing and “deprived of” – TIME + HOME.
Think of all the things you’ve been wanting to do but you “cannot”, since you have no spare time. Here are a few, feel free to choose what you’ll be happy to do.
- Read Books
I’ve been longing to read as many books as I can, but often make excuses for not reading even one. Aside from my school text books, I’ve only completed 5 books in my 30+ years of existence. Far from my every new year’s resolution of finishing one book per month.
For a non-bookworm like me, I chose to start with a book that (1) is aligned with my current interests or goals, (2) I would want to know (more) about, (3) excites my imagination or touches my feelings and (4) has lesser pages and bigger fonts J
In this challenging time, I thought it’s perfect to strengthen our faith with our God (with respect to any religion) by reading and reflecting on His words. That’s why I personally chose to read a summarized version of The Bible, which am about to finish in 2 days (1 chapter a day). For my next book, should it be a romance novel or something related to leadership? J
- Start a New Hobby or Relive a Forgotten One
One of my favorite subjects in elementary is MAPE (Music, Arts and PE). I felt most proud and happy after I built a mini “aquarium” artwork, drew a portrait of our cat, gifted my friend a personalized scrapbook or every time I am able finish an “artwork”. But due to my “busy” schedule as a full-time employee, I can’t remember the last time I did my hobby.
I guess this time, I can relive my younger days and wear my kid-artist’s hat or I can grab a pen and paper and pretend to be a writer again. Maybe I’ll discover my hidden talents in playing guitar or piano? Or practice singing, with vibrato and falsetto? Repaint my room blue, re-learn my wood-working lab lessons, or cook or bake something I learned from Home Economics class. Anything that will make me busy but happy.
- Reconnect with People
When was the last time you received a “How are you?” message from a family member, a friend or a colleague from your previous job whom you haven’t seen or even talked to for a long time?
Have you experienced receiving a message from someone at exactly the right time you badly needed to hear those words? You felt relieved, right? Or maybe even encouraged?
This is the perfect time for us to reconnect with the people that once have become integral part of our lives. A little few words like “Hi, Hello, How are you?” would mean a lot, maybe remembered and even multiplied. Who knows, those few words will rebuild connections and create new ones?
- Organize Photos
As John Maxwell said, “Create a memory and visit it often”. How re-energizing it is to feel again and again that same happiness you felt during your first birthday party; or that feeling of freedom when you first travelled solo; or when you were too excited and grateful the first time you treat your family and friends out with your first hard-earned salary.
Those are old but really good memories, so good we want to relive the moments. For now, pick up your phone, old cam or hard drive, and let’s bring it all together. Soon, when everything’s back to normal, we will make new ones, a lot.
- Cook a New Dish, Name it Your Own
Food not only fills the stomach, it also fulfills the cravings of our mind and heart. Being able to eat the foods we love makes our hearts happy and our minds calm.
As we are generally not used to staying home 24/7, we feel deprived of enjoying (or eating) the things we love.
But within the comfort of our homes, with whatever food stocks we have, we can live our “childhood dream” of becoming a Chef. We can now afford to take a (online) culinary (4-week not months or years) course (in Google Academy). I cooked “Spaghetti with Corned Tuna Locked in Can”. How about you, what’s the name of your dish?
To be continued . . .

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